Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Deadbeat Dad!


Horace Grant is a former NBA player who won rings in Chicago. Well, he is also an "alleged" deadbeat dad. His former wife, Donna, sent this lovely letter to bossip.com, explaining his bizarre behavior. Read on:
I am Horace Grant’s x-wife I’d like to give some information on how much of a millionaire dead beat dad he is! Yeah I know all his life and still til this day his claim to fame is he’s “A Christian” and now that he is retired all he does now is “give back.” But, yet in still for almost all of his son’s younger years he has failed to provide health insurance, refuse to pay my son’s college tuition and dorm fee’s and monthly stipend.
My son is not in school now he even refuse to pay for junior college…
… and he has taken back the 16th birthday present a car he bought for my son. Actually he has sent two request be relinquished of all financial obligation for my son. Now tell me in 2009 what parent don’t want there kid to have a college degree you are a millionaire that has never ever been around for my son never came to 8th grade graduation 12th grade graduation very rare a phone call to even acknowledge his existence on this earth you even allow your attorney’s to BULLY my son in
any kinda way necessary to keep him from trying to go to court to retrieve something that is his. It is laid out in my divorce decree in black and white. Let me know if you have any further interest on this former NBA millionaire.
Thanks,
Donna Grant


I hate deadbeats! I think I have made this clear in former posts but, I really hate it when people sit back and allow people like, Horace Grant, to get away with it! My sons father is far from a millionaire but, I wasn't going to allow him to screw all over me in court. I, definitely, wouldn't allow my sons education to be affected! I would write letters and solicit attorneys! If money is a problem, seek new attorneys or attorneys that will perform work pro-bono. Whatever you have to do, make certain your court orders and divorce decrees are enforced! Shame him and embarrass him! Whatever you have to do! As an adult, you are the voice of your child! If you don't speak up, who will?

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

Horace's ex is a looney tune.

Anonymous said...

buy ativan 5 mg ativan high - lorazepam 1mg take

Anonymous said...

If you have over a decade of experience with a high conflict ex you will come to understand through many bitter tears and lost fortunes: If your ex positions herself as "an advocate" for the child all hope is lost - that child is lost to the father. Given a hospitable and collaborative environment, Horace (or virtually any man) would likely overwhelmingly and enthusiastically parent the child. It's the self-appointed "advocate" who poisons the situation and emphasizes money over facilitating the father's parenting role. Hostility borne of a strong sense of entitlement and a deep seated sense of victimhood drive the high conflict ex to focus on money above all else. There are many simple litmus tests to identify such a dysfunctional, toxic person. Perhaps the most obvious is she refers to the child as "my child." Once this happens it's all over. This person will take and take and for every dollar given she'll consider it a downpayment on what she really thinks she's entitled to... years of court ensue... and round and round it goes...invariably the child will be removed from the father's life due to the shear toxicity of the situation and men like Horace will be demonized by those who have zero understanding of how an ex-wife can ruin a man if she detects weakness in the ATM machine father.