Sunday, December 09, 2007

Never Honeymoon With Your Ex!


That's something my Grandmother and Mother used to tell me. In other words, if you break it off with your boyfriend, never casually date him. You obviously ended it for a reason. You may remain friends but dating can be dangerous. Lately, we've seen what it can do. Nailah Franklin reported threats from her estranged boyfriend but never got the restraining order. I wonder if that would have saved her life? They say that women are far more emotionally involved in relationships, I beg to differ. These crimes against women have been emotionally charged. Men are not immune to emotions. They just show them in a different way. If you feel that a relationship can't go on, then don't let it. If you have that feeling, follow your gut. During a relationship, never let him/her know all of your friends and where they live. This way if you need to get away, you can. Take all threats seriously! Contact the police and take all steps to keep a barrier between you and the ex. Relocate, if you can. Remember, when a person snaps, you can't say what he/she will do. Remember, to never honeymoon with your ex. It will keep feelings in perspectives. It might also save your life.

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